‘‘Simea started the constellation with soft meditation that helped me to feel grounded and protected before starting the work. She kindly brought in all my ancestors before the process and reminded that we are all connected and guided by the light of the source. This made me feel really safe to open up about my issues.
I came to Secil with an issue being anxiety before sleep. She quickly found that this is related to me walking in to the room when I was 7-8 years old, seeing my grandmother dying, getting scared and not telling anyone about it. "What if I told someone about this" and "What if we were able to help in that moment" haunted me many years after that.
When starting the process, I was very surprised how it took just very few questions for Secil to get to the core of actual issue. She welcomed my emerging emotions with empathy and care. Although we were limited in time, Secil was not rushing through the process, but was paying close attention to every detail that was uncovered in the field.
Movement in the field was handled with warmth and wisdom, and closure of the process was exceeding my expectations. Healing sentences at the end of the constellation were all hitting the right targets, I resonated deeply and felt healing saying them out loud in my own language. When I thought the work was done, Secil turned my attention to another figure in the field by offering more healing sentences and expression of gratitude, that helped the healing to progress even further.
The strength that stood out most for me was how quickly Secil got to the core of the issue. I was not expecting the issue to be related to my grandmother in any way, but it was uncovered very quickly and resonated strongly.
One thing that really landed for me was the sentence "Maybe it was easier for your grandmother to die, because you didn't tell that to anyone in that moment". I saw positive perspective on this for the very first time in my life. It felt like a huge relief to let this guilt go.
I loved getting the constellation with stones as representatives, had never experienced it done this way before. I wonder if placing a number on the stone (e.g. placing stone on a paper sheet with specific number) would make choosing and picking process quicker when done online.’’
Ruta G.
‘‘‘Simea was really professional, skilled and intuitive in leading the constellation. She started with a grounding meditation to settle the energy and had immediate authority and presence in the field, explaining the structure and what representations she would be using.
During the interview, she gave lots of space and didn’t interrupt and she was present and showed her active listening skills through appropriate questions and picking up on some key emotions and words used, such as ‘familiar’. She used a beautiful set of crystals as reps and allowed time for the client to choose them with care. She supported the client to describe her emotions in one word which could be represented.
She consulted the client and reps but did not expect them to lead the constellation. She tuned into the field and trusted her own reading of it and provided appropriate healing sentences. She did not use standard text book ones but drew them from the field. Autonomy was given to the reps to change them as needed. She responded to the client and to the field when the client felt something was still unresolved. A second constellation emerged connected with the first and Secil had the energy and skill to lead it to a more relaxed conclusion for the client.’’
Claire Coulter
‘‘I was an observer during the constellation where Secil facilitated for Mihaela. From my position as an observer, I could clearly see how beautifully, smoothly, and precisely she conducted the initial interview. The facilitator demonstrated remarkable calmness, empathy, and presence while maintaining full objectivity throughout her questions, which created a very safe and focused space for Mihaela.
During the constellation process, the facilitator remained open and receptive to all the information emerging from the field. She showed continuous and deep attention to each representative and their movements, body language, and expressions, which allowed her to guide the process with clarity and confidence. Because of her attunement and awareness, she was able to quickly identify and reach the true source of the problem.
Overall, I felt that her facilitation was done with great professionalism, sensitivity, and inner strength, creating a powerful healing experience for everyone involved.’’
Ioana Mirona
‘‘I participated in a private constellation session with Simea that explored the relationship between myself and a client.
It was a deep and moving experience for me, and I feel compelled to share it with you and express my gratitude.
The facilitator was precise and sensitive, truly listened, held the space with quiet confidence, and introduced representations at exactly the right moments—representations that opened up new space for the other elements in the system.
The constellation included four representations, yet it clarified the relationships between them, gave space to everyone present, and allowed both internal and external movement for each one.
The facilitator’s deep listening created a space where movement could unfold almost on its own.
Working with the representations was fascinating—they were placed in the space, and I was asked to speak from within them even when I wasn’t physically close to them.
This opened up a new perspective for me, a sense of movement and healing—within the system and beyond it.
I felt there was a rare kind of presence in the room, one that allows things to happen exactly as they need to.
Thank you for the opportunity to be part of this process. It touched me deeply.
With appreciation and love,’’
Yehudit
‘‘Presence
- You are a natural facilitator. You have a natural ability to really connect and be very present
- You created and held a safe and inviting space for everyone
- You were very patience, not rushing and trusting of what showed up
Technique
You were very open and inviting, gently asking questions
You intuitively invited the Father in and when he was a little boy and you acknowledged and accepted him as he was
When you were “stuck” you did not rush or make assumptions, you allowed the field to open up and you waited to hear what was coming up
You trusted the process and when the technology did not allow you to see Jurate join the group, you were open to inviting the paternal grandmother even though you could not see the rep and could only hear her
Approach
Your overall approach was thorough and it had a sense of completeness
I really liked how you took a moment to ground yourself and the group
Your interview style was very thoughtful. You took your time to understand Claire’s issue
Your use of healing sentences helped move the constellation
At end, you checked in with the reps and with Claire to see if they felt complete. Then you honoured everyone and asked Claire to release all the representatives.‘‘
Mary.
‘‘Simea guided me through a constellation focusing on my immune system, since I had been getting sick very often recently and could not understand why. At the beginning, she asked me several thoughtful questions to explore whether this was connected to my work, my relationship, my parents, or other areas of life. One question in particular stood out—“since when has this changed?”—which felt especially accurate and helped me look at the issue from a deeper perspective.
During the constellation, Simea used semi-precious stones as representatives. Each stone carried its own energy, and this gave us additional information about the state of each representative in the field. She invited my mother, my father, my immune system, my goals, life in relation to my goals, and myself into the constellation, each one represented by a different stone. This was both creative and powerful, and it allowed me to see the dynamics from a new angle.
The only point I would suggest for improvement is that sometimes she asked the representative how it felt. In my view, this could shift the perspective toward the representative’s own system rather than the constellation itself. Perhaps it might be even more effective if she personally steps into the role of the representative and then checks with the client whether what she senses resonates with them.
The result, however, was remarkable. Within just a few days, I started to recover physically. I also adjusted my daily schedule because the constellation revealed that I had been overly focused on my goals and neglecting my immune system—leading to frequent illness. Thanks to Simea’s facilitation, I understood this pattern and was able to shift it. Although my condition had felt heavy, I recovered much more quickly than expected.
I am deeply grateful for Simea’s precise guidance and the healing effect of this constellation. It was a transformative experience that brought both clarity and tangible results.’’
Christina Stergiou