I am Simea Secil Eldek, based in Bournemouth, UK, with roots in Izmir, Turkey. I live here with my husband and two sons. I hold a degree in Sculpture from Akdeniz University and built a professional career as a designer, particularly in jewelry, where I founded and running my own design company in the UK.

Beyond my career in art and design, I have always been deeply drawn to spirituality, the human psyche, and alternative approaches to healing.

My roots are touched by Sufi philosophy, passed down through my grandmother, a Sufi master whose understanding of love, humility, and presence has deeply shaped my way of seeing. From this heritage, I learned to listen beyond words — to what moves quietly beneath the surface. This way of perceiving naturally flows into my constellation work, where presence, compassion, and deep listening are at the heart of every session.

Over the years, this natural interest and curiosity has led me to study a range of modalities, including kinesiology, psychokinesiology, Matrix work, natural stones, and the use of biotensor and pendulum, much of which I learned under the guidance of Dr. Teoman Karadağ.

This journey naturally evolved into the profound practice of systemic family constellations. Through both personal experience and professional training, I have come to recognize that the patterns we carry are not only individual but also deeply embedded within our family systems.

My background in art and creativity has become a deeply valuable foundation in my Family Constellation work. The sensitivity, presence, and openness that art requires also allow me to approach constellations with an attuned eye and heart. Through my training “Working with Art & Creativity and the Family System” with Francesca Mason Boring, I discovered how such a creative foundation can enrich systemic work, and I continue to develop and deepen this integration in my practice.

I am currently participating in an ongoing, advanced and highly intensive international training program, offered through Constellation Intensive.

Constellation Intensive is an international professional training program in systemic family constellations, bringing together highly recognized teachers from around the world. It offers advanced, certification-based training that combines theory, experiential practice, and facilitation skills.

I am currently engaged in an intensive advanced training program, while also facilitating constellations and offering sessions in both Turkish and English.

Here is a selection of international advanced trainings and workshops I have attended as part of my ongoing professional development:

Julio Príncipe (Peru)

• Systemic Host: Systemic Conversations to Transform and Co-evolve

• What Does “Systemic” Mean for Constellation Work?

• Systemic Consulting in Organizations: Intervention with Teams & Executives

Jane Peterson, PhD (USA)

• Principles of Systemic Constellation Work (SCW)

• Inquiry is an Intervention

• The Role of Pain in Constellations and Transgenerational Healing

• What Is Phenomenology Anyway?

• What to Set Up?

• Bodies in Space and Why that Matters

Bertold Ulsamer (Germany)

• Coming to Peace with Parents; Demonstration of an Individual Work

• The Basics of Leading Constellation: Energy, Order and Facts

• Language and Speechlessness in Constellations

• How to Deal with Feelings, States and Trauma (fear, pain, anger, numbness, love) in Constellations (Part 1)

• Essentials of Constellations: with Q & A

Tanja Meyburgh (South Africa)

• Classical Constellations: Ancestors, Reverence and Dignity in the Orders of Love

• Land Constellations

• Ancestral Movements in Constellations

Shavasti (UK)

• The Language of the Soul

Sarah Peyton (USA)

• Neuroscience and the Flow of Love in Constellations

• Unconscious Contracts in Constellations

Dragos Riti (Romania)

• Systemic Perception

• Integrating Split Parts – Reconnecting in Love (Part 1)

Judith Hemming (UK)

• The Interview: What’s Needed to be a Skilled Facilitator

Sneh Victoria Schnabel (Germany)

• How to Always Stay True to Yourself as a Facilitator

• The Interview — What to Set Up

• Love as the Most Important Ingredient When Working with People

• The Importance of Continuously Furthering Your Own Skills and Competencies

• Strengthen Your Own Approach: Dealing with Difficult Situations and Clients

• Strengthen Your Own Approach: Dealing With Difficult Situations, Clients and Other Circumstances During the Work

Francesca Mason Boring (USA)

• A Constellation Experience with the “Beloved”

• The Orders of Helping

• Working with Art & Creativity and the Family System

Marianne Franke-Gricksch (Germany)

• Family Constellations: Helping Clients Identify, Understand & Reconcile Family Breakdowns

• The Knowledge of Systemic Pedagogy in Constellation Work with Families

• Constellations as First Aid

• Learning to Understand Our Child’s Inner World

Yishai Gaster (Israel)

• Facilitator as Resonator of the Field

• Constellations as First Aid

• Ceremony Constellations

Suzi Tucker (USA)

• Wait, What am I Doing?

• Partners and Other Strangers

• Inquiry is an Intervention

• Whose Conscience is This Anyway?

Nir Esterman (Israel)

• Working with the Shadow in Constellations

Ursula Maria Bell (Germany)

• The Orders of Love and the Orders of Helping

• Understanding Trauma and Its Appearance During Constellations

Bill Mannle, LMFT (USA)

• Partners and Other Strangers

• Trauma and Attachment in Early Childhood

• The Mother / Father Wound

• What to Set Up (covering for Suzi Tucker)

Cecilio Fernández Regojo (Portugal/Spain)

• Technological Tools to Make Online Constellations

Svagito Liebermeister (Germany/India)

• Somatic Approach to Constellations

• Understanding and Respecting Bonding in Constellations

• Working with Emotions and Letting Go of the Past

Leslie Nipps (USA)

• Exclusion & Systemic Resistance

Ingala Robl, PhD (Mexico)

• Symptom Constellations

• Success, Money & Constellations – The Spirituality of Money

• The Art of the Interview: Tuning into the Client

• Relationship Dynamics: Couples Constellation

Jonine Lee Gabay (Australia)

• Individual Constellations: Mind’s Eye, Floor Markers, and Objects

Margarete Koenning (Australia/Germany)

• The Knowledge of Systemic Pedagogy in Constellation Work

Nur Ambreen Ihsanullah (Pakistan/UK)

• Healing the Motherload: Let Freedom and Love Flow in Your Life

• Healing the Mother Wound – Part 2 (see description for preparation)

Georg Breiner (Austria)

• Systemic Constructivism and Constellation Work

Elena Veselago (Russia)

• Working with Trauma in Constellations and Shamanic Practice

• Father and Daughter, from Childhood to Adulthood

Anngwyn St. Just, PhD (USA)

• History Matters

Maria Dolenc (Australia)

• Working with Addiction

• Relationships and the Orders of Love

Emerson Bastos (Brazil)

• 5 Elements Constellations

Meghan Kelly

• Working with Images: From the Initial Image to the Final Image

Meirav Schreiber (Israel)

• Finding Your Way as a Facilitator

Mark Wolynn

• The Art of Diagnosis

Lifelong Learning and Intention

My training is ongoing, and I embrace learning as a lifelong journey. Each step of my professional development deepens not only my knowledge but also my ability to serve others. My intention is to create a safe and respectful space for those I work with, where hidden dynamics can be brought to light — opening the way to clarity, healing, and new perspectives for moving forward.

Simea Secil Eldek